If you want your partner or a lady you love to fall madly in love with you, this article is a must-read for you. Social media is full of pictures of couples who are living their best lives. We can’t deny that not everything on social media must be believed but it doesn’t negate the fact that some of these lovely pictures and videos we see are also real. The rules of getting a woman to fall madly in love with you are for anyone who’s just meeting a woman he wants to win over or who is in a relationship with a woman and it seems as though the love is growing cold.
I’m going to split this article into two parts. What to do to make her fall madly in love with you if you’re just meeting and what you can do if you want her to be in love with you again if she doesn’t love you like she used to be.
15 Steps to take to make a girl fall madly in love with you
Without further ado, I have come up with 15 steps to take on how to make a girl fall madly in love with you.
- Make a good first impression.
- If she’s not welcoming, try again later.
- Have a great sense of humor.
- Communicate with her often.
- Make your intentions clear.
- Open up to her, show her some vulnerability.
- Introduce her to the people in your circle.
- Find out what she likes and try doing them with her.
- Make her a part of your life by sharing with her what’s going on in your life constantly.
- Seek her opinion on important issues.
- Make her a priority.
- Support her goals.
- Let trust be the order of the day.
- Have a clear vision and constantly talk about it.
- Be open to learning and improvement.
If you just met her, follow the first 8 steps. Now let’s take them one after the other.
Make a good first impression
It is usually said that first impressions matter a lot. It can either make or mar things. You don’t have to go overboard about giving a girl a great first impression, it could be something as basic as speaking politely, dressing well, how well you’re able to hold a conversation, and so on.
If she’s not welcoming, try again later
When you’re not getting a green light from her, the best thing to do is give her a break and try again later.
With that, she’ll respect you more and when you eventually try again, she’s more willing to accept you now.
However, you must be careful not to make the break too long as she might have other guys who are on her case. You’ll have to strike the balance somehow.
Have a great sense of humor
You don’t have to be like Basket mouth before you can make a woman have a good laugh. That’s what most men think but I put it to you that it’s not true.
A sense of humor includes- “understanding sarcasm, not taking things too seriously and the ability to tell good stories”.
This simply shows that you’re comfortable being around with. That in turn helps the girl open up to you more and in the process, fall in love with you.
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Communicate with her often
I have said it time and time again that being an introvert is not an excuse not to communicate with the woman you love or want to be with.
Even the reserved people have those they’re comfortable talking with, so why shouldn’t it be your woman?.
What are those things that should be communicated?.
Your vision, your feelings, and emotions.
Make your intentions clear
After you must have done the first four, don’t leave her to guess what you want from her.
Tell her clearly what you want.
Open up to her, show her your vulnerability
Disregard that nonsense that says men should not show emotions. It doesn’t make you less of a man if you do this.
A good woman knows that this is not something that is easy to come by, therefore, she appreciates this part of you that is not common to every man.
Introduce her to the people in your inner circle
If you’re so sure about this person you want to spend your life with, it is important that you introduce her to your close friends and a few members of your family.
This sends a signal that you’re ready to take things to the next level. There’s nothing that sponsors falling madly in love with a man beyond this.
Find out what she likes and try doing them with her
If she likes painting for instance, you can offer to be her model and let her paint you.
If she’s not coming to terms with doing things together, don’t push it, give her time and she’ll soon come around.
We’re still moving on with the rules of getting a girl to fall madly in love with you but we’re going to switch things up a little, the rules we’re about to discuss now is if you think your woman is growing cold towards you.
Make her a part of your life
Whether you have a big day, or you have a project you’re handling, let her in on it, it shows that you value her and this will in turn build more trust.
Seek her opinion on important issues
If you’re considering moving to a new city, ask her what she thinks about it. If you want to change your career path, ask her for her input.
You shouldn’t take important decisions without her input, no matter how foolish it seems. Learn to talk things over and see things from her perspective.
Make her a priority
One of the simplest ways to define agape love is esteeming others above yourself.
Considering her opinions and her feelings before anything else makes her feel loved and cherished.
Make your woman your priority and you’ll soon find her falling head over heels in love with you.
Support her goals
If she has told you about her goals before, ensure you take an active role in seeing to it that it is accomplished.
If she wants to enroll for an academic program, you could help her with a list of institutions she can choose from or help her with the registration process.
You don’t have to break the bank to achieve this.
Let trust be the order of the day
Accountability breeds trust. Telling your woman where you are and what you’re doing is not a sign of weakness. Little things like these are contributors to building trust.
Newsflash, a woman cannot trust you and not fall head over heels in love with you. As a matter of fact, trust equals love.
Have a clear vision and consistently talk about it
A wise man once said when you don’t know where you’re going, every bus stop looks like it.
What drives you?. Where do you want to be in a few years from now?. What role is she playing in that future?.
Talking about these things can be a huge turn on and can make a girl fall madly in love with you.
Be open to learning and improvement
Read books, lay your hands on as many resources as you can on how to love a woman better.
Practice the principles that are there and see the wonders that will produce.
Please note that the last 7 rules are also applicable if you’re just meeting for the first time. It will contribute to melting her hard girl vibes.
Above all, there’s something you should always remember. Women are emotional beings. If you can get a hold on her emotions and turn it around in your favor, then you have her completely.
Kindly let me know in the comments section which of the rules you’re going to apply first.